Saturday, May 30, 2009

29.05.2009 - Masa depan staff aku

Mid bercita cita untuk menjawat jawatan yang lebih tinggi lagi dalam masa dua tahun akan datang ... aku menyiapkan perancangan untuk Mid bagi merealisasikan cita-cita nya .... mudah mudahan berjaya.

Sunday, May 03, 2009

3.5.2009 - Malas mengaji ... jgn malas mengkaji

Dah menjadi lumrah kebiasaan masakini ... anak anak muda kurang berdamping dengan kitab al quran ... kerana malas mengaji serta kurang pengetahuan tentang hukum tajwid .. tetapi anak anak sekarang perlu mengkaji al quran walau pun tidak pandai membaca arab nya ... maksud Daddy ... mungkin anak anak sekarang dah tak sentuh langsung kitab al quran kerana tak minat dengan bacaan dalam bahasa arab yang tidak di fahami .. tetapi mungkin dengan membaca terjemahan nya ... serta mengkhatam terjemahan nya ... maka anak anak akan lebih mengetahui tentang isi kandungan al quran dari orang yang membaca al quran dalam bahasa asal nya tetapi tidak memahami apa yang di baca nya ..

Sekurang kurang nya kita faham apa yang tercatit dalam isi kandungan al quran itu dan beramal dengan nya daripada seseorang yang mengaji al quran dengan baik tetapi tak faham isi kandungan al quran tersebut.

Mudah mudahan keimanan dan ketaqwaan kita meningkat

Saturday, May 02, 2009

01.05.2009 - Youngsters in love

A young friend of the family, SA, came over to the house and took the opportunity to discuss with me about studies, relationship and responsibilities to the family ... SA is pursuing diploma business studies and is in the final year .. SA sought for some advice about serious relationship as SA found it difficult to cope up with a special friend called HA ...

Being youngster, I guess that HA wants attention from SA and likewise SA wants attention from HA too ... that ... I guess ... is the way youngsters go about building up a relationship ... to the extend of disturbing the daily life of SA ... and at times caused SA to ignore calls and sms and YMs etc etc which resulted in a heated argument between them.

Since both of them are concern for each other but both of them failed to understand that their focus to get more and more attention from each other is getting into the veins and distracting their daily chores and most of all, SA's studies ... I suspect that they don't have that much trust for each other

.... and I told both of them to lessen control over each other (the malay word is mengongkong and dikongkongi) and build up the trust needed between them so that they will be confident enough that whatever either one of them is doing, it will not be a betrayal to the partner, otherwise, the relationship should end.


sighhhh ... kids today